College “Good Guy” Hangs Really Creepy Open Letter To Women

College “Good Guy” Hangs Really Creepy Open Letter To Women

August 15, 2019 100 By Stanley Isaacs


A NEW MEXICO STATE UNIVERSITY
STUDENT AND SELF-PROCLAIMED NICEST GUY HAS A WRITTEN AND
POSTED A LETTER TO ALL LADIES THAT HE POSTED ON DORM BULLETIN
BOARD WHICH PROMPTED A REBUTTAL LETTER AS WELL AS SOME VERY
CREEPED OUT TWITTER MESSAGES. THE WEATHER THAT HE WROTE ALL
LADIES SAID OKAY LADIES, I GET IT. HE DON’T WANT A PLEASANT
EVENING CHAD. YOU DON’T WANT TO GERMAN TO MARKET YOUR CAR. YOU
DON’T WANT A FRIENDLY DO TO HELP YOU CARRY YOUR GROCERIES OR HOLD
UP IN THE DOOR OR CRUSH THE LIFE OUT OF OTHER MEN THAT WOULD DO
YOU HARD. FINE — APPEAR THE GOOD GUYS I GUESS WE’LL JUST
HAVE TO SUFFER THROUGH WATCHING YOU GET BROKEN OVER AND OVER BY
THE SCUM YOU THINK YOU LOVE. BUT I WANT YOU TO KNOW — IT’S NOT
EASY, AND IT HURTS TO SEE IF ALL. GIVE THE GOOD GUYS A CHANCE
TO HELP YOU BE LESS AFRAID OF THE WORLD. SO HE POSTED THIS ON DORM
BULLETIN BOARD WITH BLACK DUCT TAPE WHICH I’LL
GET TO LATER. NOW A GIRL POSTED —
HER NAME IS MEGAN, SHE IS 22 — POSTED A REBUTTAL LETTER AND I’M
JUST GONNA READ YOU A FEW ACTORS FROM THAT THE BANK
SHE SAID IF YOU WANT A PREDICATE THAT YOU NEED TO
THINK YOUR INTENTIONS. IF YOU’RE ONLY DOING IT FOR
GRATIFICATION, THEN YOU ARE BEING THE GOOD GUY. THE BATMAN GIVE UP ON GOSLIN
BECAUSE THE BOARD THINKING OF HER SAVING THE CITY? IF YOU WANT US TO BE LESS AFRAID
OF THE WORLD, THEN CHANGE THE WORLD, DON’T CHANGE US. AS I
MENTIONED BEFORE, PEOPLE ALSO TO TO TWITTER. ONE GIRL SAID DEAR
CREEPY ENTITLED MEN POSTING A PUBLIC FIRE ABOUT HOW YOU ARE
NICE PROBABLY MEANS YOU ARE NOT. AND LASTLY TERRIFYING, COULDN’T
BE LESS COULD BE EVEN IF IT WAS ARE NOT HUMAN SKIN. I PERSONALLY HAVE A LOT OF
FEELINGS ABOUT THIS, BUT I’D LIKE TO GIVE YOU GUYS THE
FULLER FIRST. I’VE GOT MIXED FEELINGS I CAN
WITH EVERY GUYS. THE BEST REACTION WAS WHEN
YOU ARE READING THROUGH THE STEP-BY-STEP ANEMONES SAID THE
PART CLASH I GET A MAGIC HAS AN CASANOVA A LOT EASIER CALLED IN
THE DOOR, I’LL CRUSH THAT GUY. IT IS GOING TO WAY TOO QUICK FOR
ME. THE THING ABOUT THIS REMINDS THE ADVOCATE WHO FEELS OBLIGED
TO GET SOMETHING BECAUSE HE’S DOING SOMETHING WHICH IS NOT FOR
THE REAL REASON IN THE FIRST PLACE, SOME IS PLAYING BY THE
RULES SO HE SHOULD GET HIS REWARDS. HE’S DOING THESE THING
HE’S BEEN TAUGHT TO BE A GOOD GUY SO YOU SHOULD GET THE REWARD
IN THE END WHICH IS FOR ME TO GET THE GIRL. IS THE SAME KIND
OF PARTY WILL GO TO MILLION GIRLS AND TRY TO GET WITH THEM
AND SAY THAT ALL SLUTS ANYWAY. I DIDN’T REALLY WANT THEM. EVERY ONCE IN A WHILE WE
REFERENCE AND WHEN AND PEOPLE SEEM ON CAMERA SO THEY PROBABLY
THINK WE HAVE AN INVISIBLE FRIEND. AND WHEN IS OUR STAGE
MANAGER. ONTO THE SNOW. HERE’S WHY SAY I HAVE MIXED FEELINGS.
MULTITUDE, YOU WANT TO GET WAY TOO. YOUR INTENTIONS ARE NOT ANY
BETTER THAN THE SCUM YOU ARE WRITING ABOUT. THEY WANT TO GET
LAID, YOU WANT TO GET LAID. YOU JUST HAVE DIFFERENT STRATEGIES.
DON’T GET TO BETTER ABOUT IT. FOR TWO: IF YOU ARE TRYING TO
MAKE A CASE THAT YOU ARE A NICE GUY, DON’T WRITE A SUPER
THREATENING LETTER LIKE THE SCUM THAT YOU ARE SLEEPING WITH, I
WILL CRUSH THEIR SOUL. BUT DID A NICE GUY LIKE ME. THAT LETTER, I’M WITH YOU HANNAH
READ SUPER SCARY. THE DUCT TAPE JUST ADDS A
WHOLE OTHER CREEPY LAYER. I WILL GRAB THEM IN THIS DUCT
TAPE THEN THEY WILL SEE WHAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT. CAN YOU JUST IMAGINE WRITING
A WAY NINE IS DORM ROOM? HAVING SAID THAT, I GET THE
FRUSTRATION BEHIND IT. BECAUSE — THIS WILL BE INTERESTING WAS
IF WE DISAGREE OR NOT ñ DO WOMEN LIKE BAD GUYS MORE? THAT IS AN ENORMOUSLY BROAD
STATEMENT. THE ANSWER IS YES. WHAT IT IS IS THEY ACTUALLY LIKE
— I LIKE IT AS IF THERE ARE NO WOMEN ON THE SAID. THEY LIKE
CONFIDENCE, BUT THE BAD GUY IT OFTEN HAS A LOT OF CONFIDENCE
EARNED OR UNEARNED, DESERVED OR NOT TO SERVE, AND THE GUY WHO IS
SHY ñ AND THAT DOESN’T NECESSARILY MEAN THAT YOU ARE
NICER BUT YOU ARE SHY OR YOU FEEL NICER — FEEL SO PASTE AND
YES, SINCE THAT GUY HAS MORE OPPORTUNITY, SOMETIMES HE
WILL HAVE A RELATIONSHIP AND THEN MOVE ON IT IN THE GIRL
WILL BE HER AND THEN SHE WILL BE LIKE WHY CAN’T I FIND A
NICE GUY IN THE GUY WHO IS IN THE CORNER WHO SHY IS
GOING OVER HERE. RIGHT HERE. I’LL CRUSH THEM. ABOUT, I WILL CRUSH THEM. BUT
I’M RIGHT HERE. SO THE GUY WHO IS SHY, I FEEL HIS PAIN. IT’S
NOT LIKE THERE AREN’T GUYS WHO ARE JERKS TO WOMEN, YOU TELL ME
THAT SOME WOMEN DON’T LOVE THAT? I AM SURE THAT THERE ARE SOME
WOMEN WHO ARE ATTRACTED TO THE BAD BOY. I WANT TO COMMENT ON YOUR
COMMENT AND THEN I WANT TO GET ON MY COMMENTS. THE FIRST THING IS I THINK THERE
IS THIS NOTION WHERE NICE GUYS FINISH LAST. IF YOU WATCH THEM THINKING
VIDEOS WE HAVE SINCE THE VIDEOS THAT SHOW STUDIES A THAT
THAT IS NOT BIOLOGICALLY TRUE. THINK TANK THAT. NOW I WANT TO GET INTO THIS
LETTER BECAUSE I THINK THIS LETTER, AT FIRST READING AND
YOUR LIKE I CAN YOU GET REESE COMING FROM. MAYBE NICE GUYS
FINISH LAST. NO, THIS LETTER IS EXTREMELY OFFENSIVE AND IT’S
EXTREMELY TO MEETING. IT UNDERMINES WOMEN’S AGENCY. IT
UNDERMINES WOMEN’S ABILITY TO DEFEND THEMSELVES, AND ALSO,
JUST BECAUSE WOMEN DON’T WANT YOU DOESN’T MEAN THEY DON’T WANT
A PLEASANT EVENING, GENTLEMEN TO WALK INTO THE CAR, HELP THEM
CARRY THE GROCERIES — MAYBE THEY ARE JUST NOT INTO YOU. BUT
THAT DOESN’T MEAN THEY DON’T WANT A NICE PERSON. AND THAT IS
A ANYTHING ABOUT LIKE SOCIETY AT LARGE. MAYBE YOU JUST AREN’T
GETTING THE GIRL AT THAT TIME AND THAT IS OKAY. YOU KEEP DOING
THE NICE THINGS THAT YOU ARE DOING BECAUSE YOU WILL FIND THE
RIGHT GIRL, BUT MAYBE YOU HAVE NOT FOUND HER GET. AND THAT IS
OKAY. BUT IT DOES NOT GIVE YOU ARE RIGHT TO MAKE THE STATEMENT
ABOUT ALL WOMEN AND SAYING YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT YOU ACTUALLY
WANT. YOU ARE GONNA FALL ON YOUR FACE AND YOUR UNIQUE BEING
AFRAID OF THE WORLD BECAUSE YOU DON’T WANT ME. I WANT TO CLARIFY
SOME THINGS TO GET RUN A SOCIETY. FIRST OF ALL COURSE
THERE MANY KINDS OF WOMEN. OF MY LIFE THE SPREAD WAS WHEN THE GUY
TEASES HER. MY WIFE HATES THAT. SO IF YOU ARE GOING TO BE A JERK
TURN TEASER, SHE HAS NO INTEREST. SHE IS GONNA DROP YOU
IN THE SECOND. IN FACT, I TEASER TOO MUCH. SHE’S LIKE A JOKE IS
NOT FUNNY IF IT IS ABOUT ME. IT’S ONLY FUNNY WHEN IT’S ABOUT
YOU. SO WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT. OF COURSE. MENTOR DIFFERENT WOMEN
ARE DIFFERENT. CLICK I SAID, I THINK WE ARE MISTAKING SHY FOR
KNIFE WHICH IS NOT NECESSARILY THE CASE AND WE ARE MISTAKING
OUTGOING FOR A JERK WHICH IS NOT NECESSARILY THE CASE EITHER. I
THINK THERE’S AN UNDERLINING PHENOMENON HERE THAT I THINK IS
TRUE BUT NOT JUST FOR WOMEN THE ALL HUMANITY WHICH IS A
SOMETHING IS READY AVAILABLE A LOT OF A I CAN GET THAT ANYTIME.
IF SOMETHING SEEMS LIKE IT IS NOT READILY AVAILABLE, THAT’S
WAITING THAT CAN GO WAY, COME BACK, COME BACK. I MEAN YES. THAT’S A JERK, NON-JERK
PHENOMENON YOU ARE THINKING OF. IT’S NOT ABOUT BEING A JERK,
IT’S A MATTER OF DOES THE GUY WILL CONFIDENT FEEL
CONFIDENT ENOUGH? IF I DON’T GET THEM
SOMEONE ELSE IS GOING TO. THE SAME THING APPLIES FOR WOMEN
AND MEN. I GET EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE
SAYING AS WELL. I THINK IT IS A GOOD DISTINCTION TO SAY BETWEEN
SKY AND SOMEONE HE WAS TRYING TO BE NICE ARE NOT NECESSARILY THE
RIGHT REASON. THIS GUY LOOKING AT THIS CASE
BY NICE GUY TERMS HE NEEDS SOMEONE WHO’S NOT INTENTIONALLY
BEING ATTACKED TRY TO GET WHAT HE IS ENTITLED TO, INTERESTING,
I HAVE BEEN ON BOTH SIDES OF IT. I HAVE TRIED TO BE THE NICE
GUY IN THE SHY GUY AND SOMETIMES UNLIKE IJ WHAT CAN
THEY NEVER CALL ME. I’M A BAD BOY. COME AND GET ME. THAT’S EXTRAORDINARILY ARGUE.
YOU OUTSOURCE ME ON THAT ONE. IF YOU ARE NATURALLY A NICE
GUY, YOU KNOW HOW TO BE LIKE OH, I AM NOT CAN DO
THIS FOR YOU ANYMORE. IF YOU’RE NICE GEYER DISCOURAGES
OF THE GOODNESS OF YOUR HEART. NOW YOU ARE BEING TO GRANT
AND WISHING THAT THE WORLD WAS MORE IDEAL. BUT YOU ARE RIGHT ABOUT ONE
THING ñ I HOLD DOORS OPEN FOR PEOPLE,
AND I PICK THINGS UP, I’M NOT SURE BEGAN THEIR PARENTS I
DO IT. THAT IS BECAUSE YOU WERE NOT
A GUY. WE HAD THIS CONVERSATION SO
MUCH WITH MY GIRLS WILL. THERE IS ALWAYS AN ALTERNATE MOTIVE TO
GUYS. THAT IS JUST THE REALITY AM AFRAID. YES, HE MAY SEEM
GENUINE WHEN HE’S OPENING THE DOOR, BUT EVEN IF HE’S WITH THE
OTHER DOOR HIS MIND IS ALWAYS WORKING IN THAT WAY. SOMETIMES
IT MIGHT BE DIFFERENT. IN MY BE DIFFERENT EXAMPLES WERE IT’S A
DIFFERENT CASE, BUT TO ME, THAT’S JUST THE WAY GUYS ARE
TAUGHT TO THINK. NONETHELESS, I’M NOT SAYING THAT EVERY GUY
THAT DOESN’T THINK THIS WAS A JERK. EVERYONE THINKS THAT YOU
NEED TO BE THE BAD GUY TO GET TO A GIRL, BUT ONE ASSERTS COMES TO
CHIVALRY AND MEN ALIKE TO PERFORM, THEY ARE ALWAYS
THINKING ABOUT THAT IN MY POINT OF VIEW. THAT PARTLY PROVES HEADLESS
POINT OF. BUT FIRST LET ME DEFEND GUYS. HANNAH IT’S HARD
FOR GUYS TO UNDERSTAND HOW HARD IT IS FOR SHY GUYS. FOR
INSTANCE, I’VE BEEN THERE. YOUR THINKING OH YOUR A TALK SHOW
HOST YOU BRAND RATE. YOU ARE THE LEASH AGAIN AMERICA. THAT IS NOT
TRUE. ESPECIALLY WHEN I WAS YOUNGER WITH GIRLS I WAS THE GUY
SITTING IN THE CORRIDOR THE FRAT PARTY GOING WHY DON’T THEY LIKE
NICE GUYS LIKE ME? I WAS A NICE GUY BUT IT WAS
MAINLY BECAUSE OF SHY THAT I WASN’T GETTING THE GIRLS AND
FOR THAT PERSON, WHEN THEY SEE THE GUY WALK-IN AND GO OH
YEAH I TALKED HER HA HA, YOUR LIKE WHAT THE FUCK WORRY
GOING WITH THAT GUY? IT IS SO FRUSTRATING. YOU’VE GOT
UNDERSTAND THEIR FRUSTRATION. I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND THAT AND
I AM NOT GETTING ON GUYS CASE AT ALL FOR THIS. IN MY PERSONAL LIFE, I’VE
ALWAYS STATED THE REALLY SHY, REALLY NICE GUY. I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST
NICE GUYS. WHAT I HAVE AGAINST IS PEOPLE
WHO ARE NICE AND THEN FEEL ENTITLED TO SOMETHING
BECAUSE THEY ARE NICE. THAT IS MY ISSUE. THAT IS THE PART THAT I
REALLY AGREE WITH HANNAH ON. THAT’S GUYS I’VE BEEN THERE. YOU
ARE JUST USING THAT AS A STRATEGY, AND IT IS NOT THE
RIGHT STRATEGY. YOU FEEL LIKE I’M NICE. WHY DON’T YOU HAVE SEX
WITH ME. WILL, SEE ONE OF THE SEX. YOU WERE NICE TO BE NICE
YOU WERE NICE IS THE STRATEGY TO GET LAID. AND IT TURNED OUT TO
BE THE WRONG STRATEGY. I’VE BEEN THERE, BROTHER. THAT DOESN’T
MEAN YOU SHOULD BE A JERK AND SPIT PEOPLE’S FACES. WHAT IT
DOES MEAN IS UNDERSTAND WHAT IS ACTUALLY WORKING. THE ROOT CAUSE
OF WHAT GETS WOMEN, MEN, WHATEVER IT IS — THE SEXES ARE
DIFFERENT, SO IT’S A SPECIAL ISSUE FOR GUYS. CONFIDENCE. AND THAT CONFIDENCE YOU
MAINLY GET AN THIS IS A WAY OVERSIMPLIFICATION BY THE
ABILITY TO WALK AWAY. WANT ME, GREAT. YOU DON’T WANT
ME? DON’T CARE AT ALL. YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE MEAN TO
PEOPLE TO GET THAT KIND OF CONFIDENCE.